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I think that I shall never know
Why I am thus, and I am so.
Around me, other girls inspire
In men the rush and roar of fire.
The sweet transparency of glass,
The tenderness of April grass,
The durability of granite;
But me—I don't know how to plan it.
The lads I've met in Cupid's deadlock
Were—shall we say?—born out of wedlock.
They broke my heart, they stilled my song,
And said they had to run along,
Explaining, so to sop my tears,
First came their parents or careers.
But ever does experience
Deny me wisdom, calm, and sense!
Though she's a fool who seeks to capture
The twenty-first fine, careless rapture,
I must go on, till ends my rope,
Who from my birth was cursed with hope.
A heart in half is chaste, archaic;
But mine resembles a mosaic—
The thing's become ridiculous!
Why am I so? Why am I thus?


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Apr. 18th, 2026 07:56 pm[personal profile] conuly
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Poll #34495 Ideal calendar behavior
Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 22


When should one cross dates off the calendar?

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You cross off the current date at the start of the day
2 (9.1%)

You cross off the current date at the end of the day
14 (63.6%)

You cross off tomorrow's date at the end of the day
1 (4.5%)

You never cross anything off, ever
5 (22.7%)



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What's really dismaying

Apr. 17th, 2026 07:21 pm[personal profile] conuly
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is that none of this was made up. Truly, I hate this timeline.
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The day before I left on a road trip last month I booked my hostel in Cape Town. When I arrived today they asked my name, scanned my passport, let me put my bags in storage, and said to come back at 3pm to check in. I went on a lovely aimless wander through town and returned to the desk. I wasn't on the list of people checking in today. The attendant poked through his computer and said I'd reserved in March, but the email they sent bounced and the number I registered isn't on WhatsApp[1]. I looked at the event I'd created in Google Calendar and saw I'd written "Check email or call to confirm." I'd assumed they were going to send an email during South African working hours, then promptly forgot about this TODO item during a week on the road. Oops.

Fortunately, traveling to Cape Town is more like my memories of Central America and not like modern Amsterdam, at least in shoulder season. I was able to find another hostel with an open room for a week just four blocks away. As expected, dragging my three heavy bags along the sidewalk was workable but not a lot of fun.

Speaking of my three heavy bags, before I bought my Turkish Airlines ticket I noticed their baggage page said carry-on bags are limited to 8kg. I'd never seen or heard of a carryon getting weighed, and it sounded like something a budget airline like Frontier or Spirit would do, not a flag carrier set on making Istanbul one of the busiest airports in the world. A quick Internet search found some Reddit threads with anecdata of cabin luggage not getting weighed, so I bought the ticket and mostly forgot about this limit. When I arrived at DEN (3 hours early, thankfully) the Star Alliance agent told me to weigh my carry-on first. Uh-oh. My clever packing plan had been to put my whole portable ham radio backpack in a wheelie bag, plus a change of underwear and some card games and small electronics in a big pocket. I knew this would be way more than 8kg because I'd tested the backpack radio kit on a short walk and it's heavy. (I have a lighter option, but I'm worried I'll need 45 watts to get my signal somewhere with enough hams to chase me for the magical 10 QSOs POTA target.) Fortunately there are luggage scales around the corner from the check-in counter, so I spent 45 minutes experimentally moving about 23 lbs from one suitcase to my two checked bags (each with about 5 lbs of spare weight) and my backpack, which has a width-expanding zipper. The next agent cheerfully weighed my exactly-8kg bag and checked my two exactly-50kg bags and handed me a baggage tag for my backpack without visually inspecting that it was clearly too big to fit under an airplane seat. As soon as I was out of eyesight I moved my camera bag, card games, and pockets full of granola bars back to the carry-on, knowing the gate agents have better things to do than weigh everyone's bags before they get on the plane.

I'm now going to be super aware of any objects I acquire on this trip. I'll obviously eat all the snacks, and gifting a lot of metal buttons will clear up some weight. But I'm also going to receive gifts, plus my AfrikaBurn shirt and hat. Hopefully my last lodging has a bathroom scale… or the CPT ticket agents are more chill.

8 kilograms is remarkably light for a carry-on. I was down to a mostly-empty backpack, a medical infejection pen, a folder with a dozen pieces of paper, and a fluffy pillow. I don't think I've ever had a bag this light on a plane, except my return trip from China when I put an erhu in a cardboard box in the bin. My empty suitcase probably weighs a kilo on its own. The rest of the flight experience was fine, but needing to leave a big void in my carry-on makes me not want to fly Turkish again. My lithium batteries aren't allowed in checked bags, so it makes no sense to require me to put them under the seat in a backpack while packing bulky light items like pillows in a hard-to-reach spot. Judging by the amount of space in the overhead bins they made a lot of money on extra bag fees, though perhaps they lost out on selling extra freight space.

[1] In much of the world, WhatsApp has largely replaced the open phone system because Wi-Fi and mobile data are cheaper than SMS, particularly internationally.

Photo cross-post

Apr. 18th, 2026 11:07 am[personal profile] andrewducker
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Today the white flakes on the ground aren't snow they're blossom.
Original is here on Pixelfed.scot.

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I could probably just stick the poster here and be done with it, but in case anybody's too busy having flashbacks to absorb the data, I will be speaking at the 2026 conference of the Institute for Hermetic Studies on June 5-7 this year at Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania. The theme, as you can probably guess from the poster even through a haze of tie-dyed memories, is the occult legacy of the 1970s, and my talk is titled "The Morning of the Magicians: 1970s Pop Culture, Alternative Realities, and the Revival of Occultism."  More details? Those can be found by scanning the Mark of the Beast on the lower left or, for those with more old-fashioned tastes, going to the IHS website. See you there! 
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Poll #34492 Books Received, April 11 — April 17
Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 27


Which of these look interesting?

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The Thrice-Bound Fool by Christopher Buehlman (Ocober 2026)
9 (33.3%)

The Slantwise Histories and Other Stories by Alix E. Harrow (October 2026)
14 (51.9%)

Nightcurse by Emma Hinds (October 2026)
4 (14.8%)

The Killing Spell by Shay Kauwe (April 2026)
8 (29.6%)

Claimed by the Orc King by Roxy Taylor (November 2026)
2 (7.4%)

Some other option (see comments)
1 (3.7%)

Cats!
20 (74.1%)

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Five books new to me. At least four are fantasy (the collection might be a mix of genres). At least one is part of a series.

Books Received, April 11 — April 17

Artistic Experiences

Apr. 18th, 2026 07:08 pm[personal profile] tcpip
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Since my return from China and, as a decidedly non-artistic introduction, a version of my post on visiting the Wuxi supercomputing centre has been published on the Wuxi city website. However, aside from that, my non-work, non-academic time has been almost entirely focused on artistic experiences this week, including one movie, two comedy shows, and three gallery visits. The movie was with Nitul to see "Project Hail Mary", a high-stakes alien-contact film with drama, feel-good vibes, and probably a lot of explanatory lore behind the scenes. It was quite good, but rather overrated. The following evening I spent with Robbie K., and we took the opportunity to go to Hamer Hall to see Daniel Sloss perform his latest show, "Bitter"; and he has good reasons for that sentiment. He certainly delivers insightful content with natural talent, creativity, and sincerity, and that's what makes him a great artist.

Nitul and I caught up again the following night for the opening night of German artist Julius von Bismarck presenting his multimedia and installation pieces with a climatological edge, "This is Not The Storm" partly sponsored by the Goethe-Institut. The place was packed to the rafters, but I did get to talk with my old uni friend and author, Claire Coleman, whom I hadn't seen in twenty years. Today I decided to go back to the exhibition, hoping for a quieter visit, only to discover the artist was giving an explanatory tour of their works. This time, I managed to get a pretty thorough conversation in about climatological issues, Antarctica, and Zurich, and, curiously, I foresee future collaborations.

Further, B is visiting from interstate and last night we went to the comedy festival show, "Nosferatu Looking For Love" at the Motley Wherehouse (reminds me of a place in Sydney I used to frequent), also meeting up with Erica, Chiara, and Susie. The show was delightfully corny, as expected, and there was plentiful engagement with the small audience. I honestly don't care for much comedy, but the two scales of events this week, Rhiannon McCall and Daniel Sloss, were both very enjoyable experiences. Today we caught up again, this time to visit the basement beneath the State Library and to see the current exhibit, Rebel Heart; the latter is certainly worthwhile.

It has all been quite an exciting week, and it furthers my considered assessment that artistry, screening out the lack of context, depends very much on the creativity, talent, and sincerity of the artist, with the latter, the ethical component, often quite overlooked. I would rather discuss this matter a lot more, but alas, I will have to leave that for another day. As others prepare themselves for the rest of the weekend, I have to cloister myself to catch up with various climatological research, which I have fallen behind a little. But that will certainly make the bulk of the next post.
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 I made a post in this community at the beginning of 2025, and now, we are getting close to the middle of 2026, so maybe I should post again. 

I don't see a specific reason to use the template, as this will be quick...

46, Male, United States, I post once or twice a week on average. I don't have any contentious beliefs or opinions, and my journal is mostly personal notes, with a few thoughts maybe about the world and culture. I am not heavily into any of the "fandoms", but might make a comment or two on related things. 

I don't really have any specific "types" I am looking to follow on here, although journals that are too contentious and difficult might not be what I am looking for. Adult content is okay, as long as it is not totally pornographic, and also behind a cut. I am looking to build up a community in general. 

Way way

Apr. 17th, 2026 10:56 pm[syndicated profile] languagelog_feed

Posted by Victor Mair

My rehab roomie has an unusual habit when speaking.  He randomly inserts the syllable "way" in his phrases (seldom finishes a complete sentence) and often repeats it multiple times.  Some examples:

I way

I way way

My wife way

My son way

I want way way way to toilet way.

Bed way

Way way way

No way way way

Yes way

This way

That way that way

Any way

Which way and way

Why way

OK way way

So way

Some way

Thank way

Oh way

One two way three

Way way way did you eat? [to his wife]

Thrift way [also to his wife]

Each way

The way

[Speech therapist:  "Tell me your name and date of birth"] way…  way…   way…

["Are you feeling any pain?"] In a way       what way 

["What kind of eggs?] this way      the way the way      Sunday way    

By this have way

[getting ready for therapy]

[therapist — specifically the speech therapist; most of the following quotations are taken from his answers to the questions and prompts from the speech therapist]

[therapist asks directions] kid's way    his way      same way      kid's way    the way of way     kid's way of the      kid's way     the way the way the way

[what do you do with a pen / spoon? — the therapist suggests he use objects or gestures when he can't produce the words]

[you brush your hair with a ????]   way pay nay

[shows him a hammer] way say tay

[asking him his birth month] De-way way

[are you from Boston?] way way

[where did you go to college?] way way

[what is rice?] way

[what's your name?] nay way

I'm not quite sure of the way

hall way      her way

[where's the bathroom?]   the kid's way        the way the way the way

I get way     that way      the way the way      just for once way

He utters "way" with all manner of intonation.  For instance, when a nurse asks him if he is feeling any pain, he might respond querulously:  "way way way way!"  "Way" can also be used tentatively, interrogatorily, exclamatorily, etc.

A rough estimation of all the syllables my roomie utters would be that about a fifth of them are "way".

He writes much better than he speaks.

My roommate's "way way" is not the same as Mandarin "wèiwèi 喂喂" ("hey hey").  He is a native speaker of English of European extraction.

Jerry Packard probably has a name for this phenomenon.

 

Selected readings

  • "No, no, no; yes, yes, yes" (2/2/25)
  • I wrote a post about a little boy having breakfast with his mother and sister at a Panera restaurant several years ago.  His total vocabulary was about three or four words, but he spoke them often in conversation with his family members.  I've searched for this post for hours but just can't find it.
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